Friday, October 03, 2008

What is love???

Hey there haven't been blogging for so long, sorry, honestly been very busy with my assignment, but manage to sneak a breather here and there lah. Heez... Anyway, there is nothing wrong with my love life, its blissful as ever hahaha... But its things happening around me... my fren's love probe me to write this blog.

Which is more blissed? To love or to be love? honestly, from my view there must be a balance. What is love then? I heard True Love is about giving everything and hoping nothin in return, is it really true? Do such thing happen in real life? especially in todays' context? I really wonder. Is love about possesion, give and take? if so, how much to give? how much to take? Is love really the greatest feeling on earth, surpassing friendship even? I wonder...

How do we strike a balance? Do we expect the other party to like what we like, to always want to spend time with each other, and freedom to make friend be bounded by the word relationship/ love? Is this love?

I believe love is express in many ways, some see hugging and kissing as love, while other sees beating and punishment as love; for your own good in the future they might say, what is ur say on love?

My friend approach me, he is upset, coz his gf cannot spend time with him on his birthday. Her reason, coz there is a test 2 days after his birthday, so need to prepare. He dun see why he cannot make time for her when he can make time for her on valentimes day when he had test one day after Vday. He feels she treat her fren's better then her. Frens are more important then him...

Well, that spark my this blog... gets me questioning what is love? commitment? haha... its all very amusing, probably because I am a third party (not that i want to be in one, dun get me wrong...hahah) but really open my eye further on the vast-ness on this topic call LOVE....